allowing her partner to be the sole provider—just like a “traditional” family. For this mother, staying home was not financially viable. As the primary breadwinner, she needed to return to work to support their small family. Living in a one-bedroom apartment in an expensive city, she and her partner were already struggling to save for a larger space for their growing child. When she explained their situation,her mother offered to babysit—but only at a rate of $20 per hour, with additional late fees if they picked up the baby late. On top of that, she required a car seat, stroller, bottles, and duplicates of everything the baby had at home. Faced with these demands, the mother started considering infant daycare instead, which would be more affordable and located closer to their home. With both parents working full-time and no other family members available to help,
they found themselves in a difficult situation. She ended her post by questioning whether she was wrong for expecting her stay-at-home mother—who spends most of her day watching TV and cooking—to provide free childcare while she and her partner worked to improve their financial situation. This story resonated with many, highlighting the complexities of generational expectations, financial struggles, and the challenges of balancing work and parenting.