I stopped to help an old man into a restaurant, and he changed how I see my dad.

A short pizza run was planned. After a long shift at the shop, my hands were greased, and all I wanted was a large pepperoni and my couch. But I observed an older guy at the sidewalk edge as I pulled into the lot. He tried to climb the curb outside Salerno’s with a metal cane that clinked with every step.

He was ignored as people rushed in and out with takeaway bags. Maybe shame or instinct made me stop, but I rolled down my window and asked, “You need a hand?”

He looked astonished and nodded. Smiled without speaking.

I parked, jogged, and extended my arm. He clutched it harder than intended. We proceeded slowly, and I noticed his shoes were enormous, clunky orthopedic ones with Velcro straps like my dad’s. I saw this strange vision of Dad in our kitchen trying to open a jar, becoming upset, and pretending not to.

The hostess greeted the old man like she knew him when I brought him in. “Hey, Mr. Benning, usual table?”

He laughed and said, “Not alone today.”

He looked at me and asked, “You hungry, son?”

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