Behind the White House doors, Melania Trump wields more influence than many realize. While she avoids the spotlight, insiders say she is one of Donald Trump’s most trusted advisers—especially on matters of global consequence. Amid rumors about their marriage, sources describe a strong private partnership. “They have a very open, conversational relationship,” said defense analyst Meaghan Mobbs, daughter of General Keith Kellogg. “He deeply values her counsel.”

That counsel may have directly shaped U.S. policy. Earlier this month, the Pentagon paused arms shipments to Ukraine. Days later, Trump stunned observers by announcing billions in renewed military support and sanctions on Russia. In private, he acknowledged Melania’s role: “I spoke to Vladimir today,” he said, “and [Melania] said: ‘Oh really? Another city was just hit.’”

Her Slovenian roots give her perspective on regional conflict. Mobbs believes this background informs her empathy for Ukrainian civilians and her vision for a post-war future.

Donald and Melania met in 1998, married in 2005, and share one son, Barron. Friends describe their marriage as private but resilient. She may rarely appear before cameras, but Melania Trump’s influence—especially with the president—remains undeniable.