But as he reflects on his long journey, there is one figure he says influenced him more than any producer, director, or co-star: the late James Garner. For years, Selleck avoided speaking too openly about their relationship, insisting it was “private” and “personal.” Now, as he looks back, he finally feels ready to share the truth about the man he quietly considered a mentor.
Selleck recalls first meeting Garner in the early 1980s, when both were starring in popular series that helped define American television. Selleck, then the breakout star of Magnum, P.I., was still learning how to navigate fame, pressure, and the relentless pace of weekly TV production. Garner, already a Hollywood veteran known for The Rockford Files, immediately took him under his wing. According to Selleck, Garner wasn’t just generous—he was transformative. “He taught me what a leading man should be, on screen and off,” Selleck explained. “No ego, no games. Just honesty, humor, and hard work.”
Their friendship deepened over the years, built on shared values, mutual respect, and a similar blue-collar approach to acting. Selleck says Garner showed him how to protect his integrity in an industry that often tries to erode it. More importantly, Garner modeled the kind of quiet humility Selleck came to admire. “James never chased the spotlight,” Selleck said. “He cared more about the crew than he did about being the star. That’s rare. That’s why everyone loved him.” Though Garner rarely spoke about it publicly, he reportedly viewed Selleck as the natural heir to the kind of grounded, everyday hero roles he’d helped pioneer.
Now, looking back, Selleck admits that he owes more of his career to James Garner than he ever acknowledged while his friend was alive. Sharing the truth, he says, is his way of honoring that legacy. “I wouldn’t be the man—or the actor—I am today without him,” Selleck reflected. “He shaped me in ways I’m still discovering.” With this long-held confession finally spoken aloud, Selleck hopes people will remember Garner not only as a Hollywood icon, but as the quiet force behind some of the greatest performances of his generation.
